Personal Security and Setting Boundaries
As I study the Security domain for A+ Core 2, I’m realizing how closely it mirrors real life. Security isn’t about shutting people out — it’s about protecting what allows the system to function. Over time, I recognized that too many people in my life had unrestricted access to my time, energy, and emotional bandwidth. There was constant demand with little reciprocity, and the result was predictable: burnout, physical strain, and emotional exhaustion. Any IT professional would recognize that as a compromised system. So I did what security best practices require. I tightened access controls. I set firm boundaries. I went no contact where necessary — not out of anger, but out of self‑preservation. Moving from Pennsylvania to rural North Carolina was part of that system hardening. Fewer interruptions. Less noise. More clarity. In this quieter environment, I can think, meditate, and finally rest. I can see the stars at night and trace constellations again — a reminder of how much perspecti...